If you’ve sent a message on Instagram that you want to remove from both your side and the recipient’s side, Instagram offers a feature to unsend messages. This can be useful if you’ve sent something by mistake, want to maintain privacy, or simply regret sending a message. This guide will show you the steps to delete messages from both sides on Instagram.
Step-by-Step Guide to Deleting Instagram Messages from Both Sides
Step 1: Open Instagram and Go to Direct Messages
- Open the Instagram app on your phone.
- Log in to your account if you aren’t already logged in.
- Tap on the Messenger icon in the top-right corner to access your Direct Messages (DMs).
Step 2: Select the Conversation
- Scroll through your list of conversations to find the chat where you want to delete a message.
- Tap on the conversation to open it.
Step 3: Locate the Message You Want to Delete
- In the conversation, find the specific message that you want to delete from both sides.
- Press and hold the message you wish to unsend.
Step 4: Select “Unsend” to Delete the Message
- After holding down the message, a menu will appear with various options, such as Copy, Reply, Unsend, and More.
- Tap on Unsend. This will remove the message from both your conversation and the recipient’s conversation.
- The message will no longer be visible to you or the recipient. However, Instagram does not notify the recipient when you unsend a message.
Step 5: Verify the Deletion
- After sending the message, the message bubble will disappear from both sides of the conversation.
- You can double-check that the message has been removed by scrolling through the conversation again.
Additional Considerations
Can I Delete Multiple Messages at Once?
Instagram currently does not allow you to unsend multiple messages at once. Each message must be deleted individually. You can go through your chat and unsend each message you want to remove.
Does the Recipient Know When I Unsend a Message?
While Instagram does not notify the recipient when you unsend a message, they may notice if they check the chat after you’ve deleted the message. Instagram doesn’t provide a notification, but the message will simply disappear from the conversation.
How to Delete Messages from One Side Only
If you only want to delete the message from your side, rather than both sides, you can simply delete the conversation. To do this:
- Open the conversation.
- Tap and hold the conversation from the main chat list.
- Select Delete from the menu.
This will only remove the conversation from your device, but the recipient will still see the messages in their chat.
What Happens If I Delete a Message After Unsend?
If you unsend a message, it is removed from both sides of the conversation. However, if you later decide to delete the conversation from your chat list, it won’t affect the recipient’s messages. They will still have a record of the messages unless they also unsend or delete them.
Can I Recover a Message I Unsended?
No, once you unsend a message, it cannot be recovered. Instagram does not offer a way to retrieve unsent messages. Be cautious before unsending a message, as it is permanently removed from both sides.
FAQs About Deleting Instagram Messages from Both Sides
Can I delete all my Instagram messages from both sides?
Currently, Instagram does not offer an option to delete all messages at once. You must unsend messages one by one for them to be removed from both sides of the conversation.
Can the other person see that I unsend a message?
No, Instagram does not send a notification when you unsend a message. However, the recipient will notice that the message has been removed from their side of the conversation.
How long do I have to unsend a message on Instagram?
You can unsend a message at any time, as long as the recipient hasn’t already seen it. There is no time limit to unsend messages on Instagram.
Can I delete messages from Instagram on the web version?
Yes, you can unsend messages from the Instagram web version by following the same steps as you would on the mobile app. Simply hover over the message, click the three dots, and select Unsend.
Will unsending a message delete it from the recipient’s notifications?
No, unsending a message won’t delete it from the recipient’s notifications if they’ve already received one. They may still see a preview of the message in their notification center.
Deleting Instagram messages from both sides is simple using the Unsend feature. Whether it’s a simple mistake or you want to remove a message for privacy reasons, Instagram makes it easy to delete messages from both your side and the recipient’s. Keep in mind that once a message is unsent, it cannot be recovered, so be sure you really want to delete it before taking action.


